Thursday Treats

Mister and I have returned to New Zealand after a visit to Japan.  Such a beautiful country and a much needed vacation which has given me inspiration to continue writing.

I have been absent since my last post on December 20, 2012. It drained so much of me to be vulnerable about what has hurt for so long, my infertility.  The past few months have enabled me to embrace the beauty that surrounds me.  This has always been the foundation of Thursday Treats.

1.  The Japanese are extremely polite and respectful. Such honorable traits should be emulated by other cultures, we could learn so much from these beautiful people and their captivating country.  Mister and I spent most of our time in Kobe.

We met lovely locals and and visitors from Australia, Germany and the UK.  Mister looks very happy to meet the locals, or maybe he had too much Sake?

2.  Be prepared to be bombarded with a whole lot of delectable delights!

The food in Japan is absolutely divine.  The Sashimi and Kobe beef were my favourite.
The food in Japan is absolutely divine. The Sashimi and Kobe beef were my favourite.  Prior to our visit my chop stick skills left a lot to be desired.  Now, I am a pro!
Mister and I are in love with Japanese food.
Mister and I fell in love with Japanese food.  One of my favourite meals was a Hot Pot mix.  I wasn’t sure what the actual meal was until I asked the chef after I had consumed every last bit.  The Hot Pot consisted of cabbage, pak choy, mung beans, offal and pig intestines.  I was taken aback with the offal and intestines, however glad that I tried the delicious delicacy.  Lesson learned, don’t knock it ’til you try it.                                                                   
Mister and I still managed to squeeze in a few coffee dates at Vie De France.
Mister and I still managed to squeeze in a few coffee dates at Vie De France.  What I loved most about Kobe was being able to hop on a train with Mister late at night to grab coffee and treats.  Stores and restaurants closed well after midnight.  In New Zealand most stores close at 6pm.  Kobe, the city that never sleeps.

3.  Our visit to Hiroshima was a humbling experience.

Top Right: The background is of Genbaku  Dome in Hiroshima.  The only structure left standing in the area where the first atomic bomb exploded on 6 August 1945.

Mister in front of the Genbaku Dome.
The only structure left standing in the area where the first atomic bomb exploded on 6 August 1945.

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This photo sums up how I felt after going through the museum, utter sadness.  However, I was overwhelmed with the beauty and serenity of the Hiroshima Peace Memorial Park.

4.   Kyoto, a beautiful city of temples and geisha.

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5.  It has always been a dream of mine to see Sakura in Japan, to touch and smell the blossoms.  I found the most beautiful Sakura in Kyoto.

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So much beauty surrounds us.  We just have to open our eyes to see.

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Love & Laughter,
Curly Miri

Too Beautiful For Earth

I often wonder what it would be like to wake up on Christmas morning surrounded by my kids jumping into bed for cuddles then rushing away to the Christmas tree to open up presents.  Our home filled with the delightful scent of baked goodies and treats.  Mister and I sitting on the sofa watching our children laugh and play as they open their presents. The simple gesture of ‘Merry Christmas, Mum’ would be the sweetest words to hear.

This Christmas I will light a candle for my baby I never held. Today you would have been 1 year and 4 months old.

“An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby’s birth. And whispered as she closed the book, “Too beautiful for Earth.”

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Kila’s Style by Nora Swann

When I first met Nora Swann, I was taken aback by her timeless beauty.  Reminiscent of enduring icons that are photographed by the likes of Nina Leen, Steven Klein or David LaChapelle, Nora was dressed in a deep fuchsia dress, pink draped scarf and fluorescent heels.  Elegance and passion are at the core of Nora Swann’s fashion sense.

As a Personal Stylist of Kila’s Style, Nora has emerged into the fashion industry with the desire to bring out the individual’s personal best.  Nora’s distinctive sense of style was strongly identified in her Kila’s Style Fashion Show that I had the pleasure of attending last month in Manukau.

Swann’s line introduced pieces from Op Shops, creating a chic and unique look.  A retro vibe is evident in her use of bold and bright colours mixed with an eccentric shimmer and glow in pure tones of gold, blue and grey.

Kila’s Style Fashion Show

As a stylist, Nora knows how to accentuate the beauty of all body types and most importantly her ability to keep costs to a minimum makes her services attainable.  Kila’s Style debunks the notion that one needs to be a celebrity to have a Personal Stylist.  People can feel confident in achieving a personal and unique look through Kila’s Style’s services.  The runway revealed leather, although not an easy material to work with, Nora heightened the sleek look with pink hues.  Each outfit was paired with killer heels, the definitive accessory.  Men are also styled by Nora.  I was surprised by a male model who wore a yellow palette with white.  Indeed, yellow could be quite daring for men to consider, however Kila’s Style succeeded with ingenious layering and use of colour to produce a comfortable and stylish outfit.

Beautiful ladies styled by Kila’s Style in Op Shop clothing.

The show concluded with a reveal of Nora’s Pasifika inspired creation.  A white off the shoulder dress with pink lace lining.  I was impressed with Nora’s spin on the Ie Faitaga, a traditional dress of men in the Pacific.  Nora lined the Ie Faitaga with a gorgeous pattern and shortened the front which maintains the traditional sense of the clothing with a touch of modern design.

Pasifika Inspired Creation by Nora Swann

The integration of styling and designing her own pieces is a natural step for Nora.  In only eleven months of being in business she has conducted over 150 Colour Consultations, 20+ Makeovers, styling for a music video and 3 Fashion Shows.

A pastel pink and white gown was the show stealer for me.  The dress flowed in all the right places with a corset bodice and sweetheart neckline.  A beautiful piece that epitomises the elegance of Nora Swann and Kila’s Style.

My favourite of the Fashion Show

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How did Kila’s Style evolve?

Last year in May I entered Cleo Magazine’s competition ‘Who wants to be a Fashion Stylist?’ The condition of the entry was I had to explain in 100 words why I thought I’d be a great stylist.

So I entered and won from over 3,000 entries nationally. I was so surprised when I received a phone call from Angela Stone herself saying that I had won her competition. The winner was to go on a fashion styling course with Angela Stone to the value of $4,000. The course was for three days and there were only two students (myself and Rachel Hunter’s buyer for her clothes line in The Warehouse). It was the most exciting and informative thing ever and with only two students we were able to get the most out of Angela Stone.

I went on this course in October and then Angela helped me start up my own business which was formed in December [2011].

What are three items that every girl needs in her wardrobe?

1) Cowboy Boots:  They’re versatile, can be worn all year round and will never go out of fashion.

2) Quality Jeans: It was so hard to find a pair that suited my body shape and I had to spend a bit to find them but I love my Calvin Klein Slim Fits.

3) A Stylish Blazer. I have a cool black and checkered 80′s Blazer which makes me feel so good when I wear it. I can dress it up or down and still feel great!

What is the most treasured item in your wardrobe?

The most treasured item in my wardrobe is my wedding dress. A really good friend  made it for me when I got married in Australia. I opted for a simple style and focused on my accessories. I remember putting it on.  It was close to 40 degrees celsius and it had 10+ layers of lining!

Beautiful Nora on her Wedding Day

Who is your favourite designer or fashion icon?

I idolise Daphne Guiness. She likes to make her own accessories and garments when she can’t find what she is after. She reminds me a lot of myself. I love her fashion sense, her creativity and just how she isn’t afraid of taking risks. She is the epitome of a fashionista to me.

How would you describe your sense of style?

I’m a cross between a creative and dramatic dresser. I’m a ‘Winter’ (in terms of what colours suit me) and I love wearing the big and bold [colours] as I know it accentuates my natural features. I love taking chances, mixing fabrics and textures that the ‘manual’ says I shouldnt. I love statement accessories and will always experiment with fashion until the very end.

Nora Swann

Kila’s Style is now nearing its 1 Year Anniversary.   Be sure to stay updated via Kila’s Style Facebook page.  Stop by, have a browse and grab a few style tips from the gorgeous Nora Swann.

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Nora & I after her Fashion Show. Loved how everyone received a pretty Lei upon entrance.

Love & Laughter,
Curly Miri

Thursday Treats

Isn’t he a beautiful sight?

Hanging out with Elijah always makes me smile

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I enjoy being an aunt to my handsome nephew, Elijah.  Each moment is such a treat, hearing him laugh is so wonderful.

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Delightful treats of the week:

Gorgeous home made cupcakes by Mariel’s Delights.  Passionfruit & Mint Chocolate were my favourite!

Lucky Cafe. Mister & I love to frequent this place. You have to visit and try a treat from their beautiful all day breakfast menu.

Mister ready to devour his Big Breakfast & my devine Blueberry pancakes. The Cozy Cafeteria.

My sister introduced me to these lovely Whoopie treats. Absolutely delicious!

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Last month I launched Curly Miri Baby Boutique.  I am so passionate about bringing joy to children’s lives and have been very busy creating and sourcing vintage delights.  Have a look at my Website or check out Curly Miri Baby Boutique on Facebook.  Elijah is a great model and inspiration for my boutique.  I am excited about the future of the boutique.  I have a 24 hour auction coming up at the end of November with all proceeds going towards a great cause, so stay tuned!

Here are a few of the latest additions to the boutique.

Curly Miri Two Tier Shelf filled with Vintage delights

Handmade Vintage Car Dress

Handmade Crocheted Quilts

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Spring in the southern hemisphere has been beautiful. A great way to brighten up any room in your home is to pick a few flowers from your garden and place in glass bottles.

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My two favourite people.  Mister & Elijah.  Each day I wake up with a grateful heart and this is why.

My favourites.

Love & laughter,
Curly Miri

Thursday Treats

Gorgeous Opononi-Deck View

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As seen in my previous Thursday Treats post, Mister & I loved our weekend away in Opononi.  So, we had to go again for Labour Weekend.  We rented a holiday house and woke up each morning to a breathtakingly beautiful view.

Lovely Holiday House in Opononi

Mister snapped a photo of me on the deck (twilight)

Lovely Chicken & Asparagus Dinner made by Mister

Mister relaxing in Opononi-our favourite getaway.

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I have launched Curly Miri Baby Boutique; merging my love of children and vintage.  My nephew Elijah has been my inspiration to start a Baby Boutique to bring joy to children.  Please take a look and ‘Like’ on Facebook.  Promise it will make you smile, lots!

My nephew, Elijah. The inspiration behind Curly Miri Baby Boutique.

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Craft & Vintage stores are a favourite of mine to venture into.  Mister & I checked out Morrell’s Cafe Crafts & Gifts in Waimamaku.  I fell in love with a Vintage Mohair Feel Throw and just had to get it, and it’s green my favourite colour.  I’ll be using this to add colourful delight to the Rattan Furniture Mister & I picked up this week.

Gorgeous Green Mohair Throw

Our gorgeous Rattan furniture. A bargain buy (my favourite kind of buy).

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I enjoyed celebrating my birthday at Cornwall Park with my family.  Elijah slept the whole time as we ate Marble Mudcake & yummy picnic delights.

Mister & I at Cornwall Park

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I captured this moment as I admired this elderly man mowing his lawn.  It made me think of how grateful I am to have such good men in my life.

My father migrated to New Zealand with my mother and I from Samoa.  For over twenty years he has worked hard to provide for his family and has done his best to raise my brother, sister and I in a loving environment. Dad’s giving and humble heart is such a blessing to many.

My brother is a loving and genuine person.  I have always had a soft spot for my brother.  Always there for me, he makes me laugh and his love has no bounds. I am so grateful for him.  I have the most beautiful nephew because of my brother.

Mister loves me unconditionally.  A wonderful man and great provider who does not ever complain.  He always finds ways just to make me smile.  I admire his hard work ethic, everything he does is for us.  He takes me out on coffee dates, cooks lovely meals for me, plays my silly games and believes in my ability to flourish and accomplish my dreams.  He makes me feel so loved.  Mister is the reason I wake each day with a grateful heart.

I am so grateful to have such strong and loving men in my life.

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Love & laughter,
Curly Miri

Curly Miri Baby Boutique

Curly Miri Baby Boutique-my new creation merging my two loves:  Children & Vintage.

My nephew Elijah inspired the launch of Curly Miri Baby Boutique.

Please stop by Curly Miri Baby Boutique & ‘Like’ to show your support.  I’m sure my cute nephew Elijah will make you smile.

Smiley Elijah

A sneek peak of ‘Before’ shelves & cabinets currently being restored & a complete Curly Miri Shelf filled with vintage goodies.

Curly Miri Gift Package

Vintage Crocheted Boy

Elijah relaxing & being cute (his full time role)

Love & laughter,
Curly Miri

Walking Away

Nostalgic.  5.15pm, November 29 2005.  Snowflakes fall gracefully as tears well up in my eyes.  I look at the snow, so serene, simple, pure and innocent, and I wish this could be a reflection of me. Stumbling in silence, we enter the foyer of the Spokane County Courthouse.  It is not my dad meeting me at the altar.  The altar does not even exist. It’s a Judge, dressed in morbid black, smiling with his pearly white teeth; ironic.

This is not how I pictured any of it; there are no gardenias, no strapless wedding gown, and no smiling faces in the crowd, or my best friend as maid of honour, no feast filled reception, no sunshine…no family.  What am I doing? I’m holding the hand of the man I have obsessed over since the sinless age of sixteen, and now five years later we are together.

My parents are 7810 miles away thinking I’m visiting relatives around the continental US.  I am betraying them.  This is going to hurt them.  How does a Samoan girl leave behind cultural tradition?  How does the eldest grandchild abandon family responsibility?  Love does not hurt, it burns.  My heart is scorched with an understanding of the ultimate betrayal.  Standing here in a cold and dark foyer I take it all in.  Here I stand with a man who is close to a stranger, an overly pleasant Judge, the scrawny court security guard who so kindly agreed to be our witness and I hear the song “I Miss You” by Blink 182, mirroring my thoughts in the echo of the silent room.  I close my eyes and let it all go.  Nothing else matters in this moment.

I embrace the emotional rollercoaster and this is how I feel.  So many questions unanswered.  Love.  What is it?  Where does it come from?  Who has it and who deserves it?  There is no genuine or precise definition of this fragile sense of being.  You know that feeling where you crave and crave until it becomes an obsession?  Where you know how that person talks? How they walk? How they smell?  And how they breathe?

The first thing in the morning when you wake and the last thing before you sleep at night, in your dreams and all the time between.  That is how much they dwell within you.  These are the times when you long to be with them, where you cannot think until you see them, until you feel their embrace, cold or warm.  It is an unconditional relationship entrapping deceit, hate and desire, maybe even real love, yet it is so much more, where two people are known to one another, where one is what you become, for a week or eternity.

You have to accept what is given to you, change will not occur.  Hope all you want, your hope will still be in vain.  Love is where the eloquence of honesty is what you live for.  Where hurting from the truth is better than living a lie.  What matters most to you?  Faithfulness from the heart and from the eyes.  Hurt comes, he may leave, and he might stay… maybe.  For what though?  This hurtful existence leaves you aching, longing, wanting more, leaves you naive, vulnerable and torn.  You may not get over it but the reality is you will have to move on, a cliché but true.  But anything is possible.  Being lonely is better than living unhappy.

Many years have passed.  I have moved on from the sadness.  I remember that cold November night, Blink 182 and a shiver of melancholic conscience washes over me.  Sometimes I wish time would stand still; allow the numbness to flow through, and embrace me completely. I am thankful so I let it all go, grateful for this burning feeling, this path of true and undying substance.  Now, it feels good to be free.

Curly Miri © 2012

Love & laughter,
Curly Miri